Sometimes it happens that we have to take decisions which are not in line with what actually we want to achieve. We get stuck in a state of dilemma. I would like to share one such situation here. We all want our child to be polite and respect others. But sometimes we have to teach him how to kick back the other person so that he does not get bullied by other children.
Now put yourself in the place of that parent and think of the dilemma he is facing. What he is making his child to learn is a total contradiction to what he wants his child to become in future. But if he does not do so, it may affect the child's understanding of this world.
Out of 100 times, there will be 99 times when you have to be dignified and polite, but there would be one time when you have to actually thrash the other person back so as to defend yourself. The society in which we live in, is diverse and full of challenges. It depends on the wisdom of the person to choose the right action at right time and overcome these dilemmas.
1 comment:
To choose for the right action the child should know what is right and wrong and that wisdom is only given by the parents with whom the child lives or the society he lives in so there i no dilemma its like a soft iron ball which can be moulded into any form !!
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